Choosing Your Battles: Type B Mom’s Guide to Sanity

 

Introduction:

    Parenting is basically a never-ending game of pick your fights wisely—because if I tried to win every battle, I’d be exhausted before breakfast. Some hills are worth dying on (no, you cannot launch spaghetti across the room), but others? I let those slide for the sake of everyone’s sanity. Thanks to TikTok, I’ve come to accept my role as the ✨ Type B, get-it-done-without-losing-your-cool mom.✨ (A "Type B mom" is a term used to describe a mother who is relaxed, easy-going, and embraces a more flexible and less structured approach to parenting and family life, often prioritizing spontaneity and a "roll-with-the-punches" attitude.)

Lets Dive in

1. Socks, Shoes, and Whatever Else Isn’t That Serious

I used to stress when my kid walked out the door in mismatched socks, crazy masks or refused to wear a jacket. Now? As long as they’re not shivering or committing a fashion crime so bold it stops traffic, I let them live their truth. If they want to learn the hard way that flip-flops in winter are a bad idea—so be it. Natural consequences do the parenting for me.

Pics of my daughter for this section, because my son is the total opposite. (neat, clean, ready to go)

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2. Food Fights (Not the Messy Kind)

Is every meal balanced? No. Does my toddler think a single bite of broccoli should earn an award? Yes. I used to stress about making Pinterest-worthy meals—now I just aim for something edible and vaguely nutritious. Some nights, that’s homemade stir-fry. Other nights? It’s chips and apple slices.

3. Screen Time Debates

I could fight the battle against screens constantly, but I’ve learned to compromise instead. If a show lets me drink my coffee in peace or finish a blog post without interruption, I’m calling that a win. And honestly? Their little brains will be fine—even if they can recite the entire episode of Bluey.

4. The Battles Worth Fighting

Of course, I pick my hills carefully. Kindness? Non-negotiable. Respect? Absolutely. But everything else? I’ve realized that choosing peace over pointless power struggles has made life way more enjoyable.

Conclusion:

Parenting isn’t about controlling everything—it’s about preserving your energy for what actually matters. So if you see me out in public with kids wearing Crocs, leggings, an oversized sweatshirt and humming random songs I heard through out the day, just know—I’m out here choosing my battles and keeping my sanity intact.

What Do You Think?

What’s a battle you’ve stopped fighting as a parent? Let’s share, laugh, and remind each other that sometimes, letting go is the best strategy! Please comment below 🠟💕

Calm in the Chaos: My Journey to Managing Stress

    

Stress—it's the uninvited guest that turns up at every party, especially when you're hosting the circus of family life. From mismatched socks to missed deadlines, it seems to find a way to creep into every corner of my day. But over time, I’ve learned a few tricks to tame the beast (or at least, to coexist with it).

Step 1: Naming the Beast

Recognizing stress is the first step. For me, it’s the tight feeling in my chest or the moment I start snapping at my husband (sorry, babe). Just calling it out—“Hey, stress, I see you”—can be surprisingly freeing. 

Step 2: The Power of Small Wins

When life feels overwhelming, I aim for tiny victories. Like organizing one messy drawer or savoring my coffee while it’s still hot (rare). These small moments remind me that even during all the chaos, there's room for calm.

Step 3: Finding My Happy Place😊

For me, it’s writing—pouring my thoughts onto paper feels like hitting reset. Whether it’s blogging about sibling shenanigans or crafting to-do lists, creativity helps me redirect the energy that stress tries to hijack.

Step 4: Leaning on My Tribe

Family and friends aren't just for sharing laughs; they’re also my lifeline during tough times. A quick vent session with someone who understands (or a goofy moment with my kids) works wonders to lighten the load.

  Stress doesn’t disappear, but it doesn’t have to rule your life. It’s okay to pause, breathe, and admit you’re not perfect. In fact, embracing imperfection has been one of my greatest lessons. Every messy moment in my house reminds me that chaos and beauty go hand in hand.    

Tell me, how do you handle stress in your day-to-day life? 🤔

Share your tips, tricks, or stories in the comments!👇

 I’m always eager to learn from others, navigating life’s chaos!😁